Probably the most common question asked in the twenty first century. However, has it ever occurred to you that this "question" for some, is not a question at all? For some, this question is merely a phrase said in passing. For others, it is a socially polite way of greeting someone, or a way of making easy conversation. In our on-the-go lifestyle, we have become so accustomed to the typical,
"How are you?"
"Good"
"Good."
But do we intend to hear about the life of a friend? Now days, do we even expect a different reply then the all-to-familiar, "good"?
The other day, one of my close friends' asked me this ordinary question. But in fact, her question wasn't ordinary at all. Her question demonstrated curiosity, she was genuine. I felt like, in her eyes, my state of being mattered. I was able to ask her how she was and the feeling was so fulfilling. I was reminded that "How are you?" is a question and, it is meant to be answered.
Perhaps I feel so strongly about this because I am a Communications major and I thrive off of conversing with others and networking. But, I think that this blog is relevant to our society and lifestyle. I think that everyone should evaluate how they use the conventional question, "How are you?"
So, friends and followers, how are you?
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